Day 3

820a- Now that I am of an age where I am both lazy & can afford convenience fees, I have now added Brazilian waxes to my beauty regime. So every 4-5 weeks, I schedule myself a early Saturday morning wax. I’ve been going to the same place since the beginning of the year (thanks to a bomb GroupOn) and eventually I decided it was worth it to pay for the monthly membership fee ($45 every 1st of the month). The process is honestly so fast, I’m in and out in 13 minutes. So after that I walked around the corner to this cute neighborhood coffee shop, Meraki, grabbed an iced lavender honey latte (my current craze) & an everything bagel with cream cheese. ($10 tip + $8.65)

930a- Saturday mornings are nice to have to myself. We just drove to the bay area in my car last weekend, so I decide to get the I-5 gunk washed off. I go to this local spot who runs it through an automated wash and then hand wipe/semi-detail afterwards. I pay full price and cash back (bc I never seem to remember to stop by the ATM to pull cash) for tip. They do a great job & even compliment me on my car (: ($25.99 + $20 cash back)

1p- Boyf gets off work and we’re both starving. We know we better eat before we run errands and agree to eat at our fave Hawaiian spot, Homestyle Hawaiian, even though its the complete opposite direction of our errands. I order a mix plate with their lava chicken & korean chicken and, of course, we can’t forget our deep fried spam musubi. I cover lunch since I still owe from dinner last night. ($42.99 + tip)

2p- As usual, I need dessert. Luckily for me, a boba drink is my fix! We go to a local tea shop, Gotcha Cafe, and order a winter oolong milk tea with boba less sweet. ($4.75)

3p- We end up at Target first since grocery shopping usually involves us buying cold/frozen food. I return a bralette I bought the completely wrong size in. We both venture off into our respective clearance sections. I end up with 3 bralettes (comfort > everything) and boyf ends up with a pair of pants and shirt, all clearance! We walk the rest of the shop and thankfully don’t fall for Target’s usual tricks. We charge our purchases to our joint account, since that’s what we’ve tied our RedCard to, so I don’t count it as my free money.

4p- Sprouts has been our go-to grocery store, especially since they opened one 2 miles from our place. We buy our usual meal prep stuff: mixed greens lettuce, chicken breasts and avocados. I try to branch out and try out some new kombucha (which I’ve heard you just have to find your flavor), some new protein oatmeal (for morning breakfasts) and these huge ass white peaches (which honestly I think are nectarines, but I’ll take it since they’re the texture I prefer). Our first transaction was a price matching of our boogie pup’s raw food, the price changed in the week we had purchased it so we had that adjusted and bought another bag (we saved like $40!), Boyf paid for that. I pay for this week’s groceries and we call it even between all our meals/groceries. ($58.87)

7p- We chill for the rest of the evening, cooking whatever we had left in the freezer. We make some sliders and tater tots. I prep veggie based pasta with the left over ground beef for next week’s meal prep (salad + 8 oz pasta). We open a bottle of Rose from that winery we went to for our roommate’s birthday and it tastes just as good as I recall! We still shuffle through Netflix and can’t agree, I head to sleep bc I have a feeling I’m getting sick.

Daily Total: $171.25

Day 2

730a- No more pastries from 85, so I’m drinking my iced coffee and water on the way to work. It’s Friday so it’s always good vibes going in.

1120a- Today’s a light day in the lab and I’m starving since I had nothing to eat for breakfast. I decide to eat half of the chicken sandwich my boyf packed for me.

1140a- A couple of minutes later, my coworker mentions she wants some Hawaiian BBQ and who am I to say no on a Friday?! I volunteer to drive since I got a new car this month and drive 10 minutes to our closest L&L. I decide since I’ve already had half a sandwich, I’ll only order a katsu musubi ($3.13). But since it’s Friday and we’re getting wild, there’s one of my go-to boba spots next door, Dingtea, so I  grab a large jasmine green milk tea half sweet with boba ($5.14). $8.27

6p- Typically during the week I’m pretty good at eating from home but once Friday creeps up on me, I seem to have no sense of self control. My boyf & I have stumbled upon this new sushi joint about a month ago and CANNOT quit it. It’s this new temaki (hand roll) sushi bar that just opened up and is the only one of its kind in San Diego (J/Wata)! I love this place bc they do have an available set menu (Go, $21.75, for 5 hand rolls) and offer individual rolls if you happen to have a favorite you can’t get enough of. Since we’re now seasoned vets, I order an extra Negi Salmon roll and a Blue crab roll. Boyf, grabs the newly featured blue fin roll, bay scallops and negi salmon. We decide it’s easier if one of us pays and we “divi” it up amongst us later.

7p- As content & full as I was, I always have room for dessert! We’re on one of the most popular food strips in SD, so we decide to risk our lives and j-walk across the street to The Churreria Cafe. I grabbed my favorite maple glazed & bacon bits churro, while boyf got fruity pebbled churros filled with different custards. I decide to pay for this tab since he already paid more for dinner. $12.39

10p- We decide to bum it in bed, shuffle through Netflix and decide on watching Amazing Interiors while I dose off.

Daily Total: $20.66

Day 1

730a- Since I usually get into work & hit the ground running, I make use of my 4 mile commute. On the way to work sipping on my Nespresso iced coffee, just made the change this year to only drinking from Nespresso during the week (totally worth the investment). I also scarfed down a bacon & garlic pastry from our local 85 degree Bakery, that we purchased earlier in the week. We were out of town this past weekend so we definitely took an L for our meal prepping this week.

12p- Work flies by! Luckily my lunch didn’t need any refrigeration and was waiting for me at my desk. I had a simple chicken breast with lettuce, avocado, provolone cheese & mayo sandwich (one of my staple go to’s for a quick meal). I drank water from my 40oz Hydroflask and coffee from this morning (I’m a slow drinker).

4p- I come home from work; famished as usual. My roommate’s cousins are in town and we made plans to grab drinks and dinner later tonight. So I eat what’s left over of my bbq pork banh mi from last night and drink some of this new watermelon kombucha I’m trying.

6p- We stop by this cute bar/restaurant in University Heights, Madison, for Happy Hour! We wanted to take her cousins to this particular place bc they can add CBD oil to any drink. I decide to actually veer from the happy hour menu and go for a drink I know I’ll love (since it is my first time at this bar). I opt for an Umbrella; it consists of green Chile vodka, cucumber, lemon, club soda and added mint (love the freshness it adds). I decide not to add the CBD oil bc we’re going to one of my favorite restaurants that have some of my favorite cocktails. Naturally, we’re cutting it close for dinner reservations so we decide to pay in cash (which I don’t have) so we can just leave it with the check. My roommate offers to pay for me & I promise to Venmo her back (which really, I will be buying dog food for her pup later this week so we’re even).

730p- We valet and pull up to one of our favorite restaurants in Little Italy, Ironside! If we’re being honest we’re at Ironside for one thing & one thing only. The table orders a round of Lobster rolls & we all purchase our individual cocktails/drinks. I always ask our server if they can ask the chef to make the fries garlic fries (tbh, its a 50/50 chance. Depending on the mood of the chef and how busy the restaurant is, will determine whether or not you’ll receive that request). I order the Skuba Diver (gin, cucumber, mint, you see my trend here) and enjoy that with the house bread and butter I order for the table. The food is delicious, as always, and drinks a little stronger than anticipated. We decide to throw the tab on one person’s card and split the whole meal evenly through Venmo. $40

 

9p- We walk passed all the temptations on one block back towards the valet. We even peak into an Italian cafe, which looked like they offered homemade gelato but decide better since we just carbed up on 5 lbs bread at the restaurant. Yay us for adulting and being rational!

930p- I arrive home exhausted and dehydrated from two cocktails on a Thursday, two more drinks than I’ve had in the past month. I decide to just drink water and take my ass to bed.

Daily Total: $40

 

Money Diaries Inspired

So my best friend showed me this really cool article series, Money Diaries, on Refinery29 & I was quite inspired. I read some stories and really felt connected to these women whom’s life I just started reading about. It was as if we shared some deep thoughts about how we lived our life based on our goals, priorities & dollars. So I figured, why not? Fuck it. Let me just make a post about how I spend my money in 7 days. I also am doing it to just see how much I really do spend in a week’s time, a plus for me because I can be financially transparent with myself and how much I spend.

Basics:

  • Occupation: Research Associate
  • Industry: Biotechnology
  • Age: 26
  • Location: San Diego, CA

Monthly Expenses:

  • Rent: $2200 (Split between me, my bf & roommate)
  • Gas/Electric/Water/Sparklettes: $160-$200
  • Renters Insurance: $30
  • Car Payment: $477
  • Car Insurance: $190
  • Credit Cards: $160-$200
  • Phone Bill: $200
  • Brazilian Wax: $45
  • Apple Music: $14.99